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Nov 17

When we say, "Man Up"—What does that REALLY Mean?

The term "man-up" has many different meanings in our society today. If for the meaning you look to Hollywood, the mainstream media, porno...

Do "Sexual Entitlement" and a Healthy Marriage go together?

mbkastleman

Oct 28

Do "Sexual Entitlement" and a Healthy Marriage go together?

Recently, a friend asked me a question that I've been asked my many women over the years. She prefaced the question with something like: ...

I'm Not Sexually Attracted to My Spouse—Is Our Marriage Over?

mbkastleman

Oct 1

I'm Not Sexually Attracted to My Spouse—Is Our Marriage Over?

Our Sexualized Culture Can Convince Us that "Sex" is Everything in a Marriage We live in a society that often shouts the message that "se...

Engage in Difficult Conversations to Enjoy TRUE CONNECTION!

mbkastleman

Sep 29

Engage in Difficult Conversations to Enjoy TRUE CONNECTION!

The Difference Between "Healthy Attraction" and "Porn/Sex Addiction"

mbkastleman

Aug 27

The Difference Between "Healthy Attraction" and "Porn/Sex Addiction"

By Divine Design we are built to feel natural, healthy attraction for other human beings. In fact, there is more real estate in the brain...

Can I Regain My Wife's Trust? How Can I Dare to Trust Her?

mbkastleman

Jul 28

Can I Regain My Wife's Trust? How Can I Dare to Trust Her?

There are two big concerns that often occupy the thoughts of married men who are in recovery from porn and sex addiction— Can I ever rega...

Collaborative Conflict is Essential to Real Intimacy in Marriage

mbkastleman

Feb 11

Collaborative Conflict is Essential to Real Intimacy in Marriage

Most of us avoid conflict at ALL costs, but "collaborative conflict" is an essential part of real intimacy in marriage.

His Porn Addiction and her Betrayal Trauma—Part Two

mbkastleman

Feb 4

His Porn Addiction and her Betrayal Trauma—Part Two

Betrayal Trauma has a massive impact on a woman’s sense of self-esteem and worth: Personal inadequacy (physical, emotional and sexual)—“I’ll

Does Great Sex with a Partner Cure Porn Addiction?

mbkastleman

Jan 23

Does Great Sex with a Partner Cure Porn Addiction?

Many who struggle with porn use believe that once they're married the problem will naturally go away. This is nearly never the case! Why?

mbkastleman

Oct 1, 2019

Is Porn Tearing Your Marriage Apart?

This is NOT a trial you asked for! No woman says "I do" expecting to deal with a situation of this magnitude. And it's NOT your fault!

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