mbkastlemanNov 17, 2020When we say, "Man Up"—What does that REALLY Mean?The term "man-up" has many different meanings in our society today. If for the meaning you look to Hollywood, the mainstream media,...
mbkastlemanOct 28, 2020Do "Sexual Entitlement" and a Healthy Marriage go together?Recently, a friend asked me a question that I've been asked my many women over the years. She prefaced the question with something like:...
mbkastlemanOct 1, 2020I'm Not Sexually Attracted to My Spouse—Is Our Marriage Over?Our Sexualized Culture Can Convince Us that "Sex" is Everything in a Marriage We live in a society that often shouts the message that...
mbkastlemanSep 29, 2020Engage in Difficult Conversations to Enjoy TRUE CONNECTION!Contrary to popular beliefs, our most difficult conversations can be the MOST CONNECTING if we can learn HOW to use some simple...
mbkastlemanAug 27, 2020The Difference Between "Healthy Attraction" and "Porn/Sex Addiction"By Divine Design we are built to feel natural, healthy attraction for other human beings. In fact, there is more real estate in the brain...
mbkastlemanJul 28, 2020Can I Regain My Wife's Trust? How Can I Dare to Trust Her?There are two big concerns that often occupy the thoughts of married men who are in recovery from porn and sex addiction— Can I ever...
mbkastlemanFeb 11, 2020Collaborative Conflict is Essential to Real Intimacy in MarriageMost of us avoid conflict at ALL costs, but "collaborative conflict" is an essential part of real intimacy in marriage.
mbkastlemanFeb 4, 2020His Porn Addiction and her Betrayal Trauma—Part TwoBetrayal Trauma has a massive impact on a woman’s sense of self-esteem and worth: Personal inadequacy (physical, emotional and sexual)—“I’ll
mbkastlemanJan 23, 2020Does Great Sex with a Partner Cure Porn Addiction?Many who struggle with porn use believe that once they're married the problem will naturally go away. This is nearly never the case! Why?
mbkastlemanOct 1, 2019Is Porn Tearing Your Marriage Apart?This is NOT a trial you asked for! No woman says "I do" expecting to deal with a situation of this magnitude. And it's NOT your fault!