mbkastlemanOct 23, 2020What "Choices" do you have in Porn Addiction & Betrayal Trauma?For much of my life, I lived in "victim mode" and ran around spouting off cliches like, "I'm a realist," and "It is what it is," and...
mbkastlemanSep 1, 2020Avoiding Pain will actually make your Addiction Worse and Keep You Stuck in Betrayal Trauma!It's normal for all of us to try to avoid pain when we can—that tendency is built into the very structure of the human brain. However,...
mbkastlemanAug 18, 2020Pornography Addiction Relapse—the Impact on Your Marriage and Breaking Free from the "Relapse Cycle"What happens when you face a "Pornography Addiction Relapse"? The Fallout of Relapse— For the Porn Addict: Hopelessness, shame,...
mbkastlemanAug 11, 2020Stop Being a "Victim"—"Let Go" and Let Her Focus on Healing from Betrayal Trauma!It's very easy to lose track of your own recovery from porn addiction and try to CONTROL your spouse's healing. To be successful in your...