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    What "Choices" do you have in Porn Addiction & Betrayal Trauma?
    mbkastleman
    • Oct 23, 2020

    What "Choices" do you have in Porn Addiction & Betrayal Trauma?

    For much of my life, I lived in "victim mode" and ran around spouting off cliches like, "I'm a realist," and "It is what it is," and...
    Avoiding Pain will actually make your Addiction Worse and Keep You Stuck in Betrayal Trauma!
    mbkastleman
    • Sep 1, 2020

    Avoiding Pain will actually make your Addiction Worse and Keep You Stuck in Betrayal Trauma!

    It's normal for all of us to try to avoid pain when we can—that tendency is built into the very structure of the human brain. However,...
    Pornography Addiction Relapse—the Impact on Your Marriage and Breaking Free from the "Relapse Cycle"
    mbkastleman
    • Aug 18, 2020

    Pornography Addiction Relapse—the Impact on Your Marriage and Breaking Free from the "Relapse Cycle"

    What happens when you face a "Pornography Addiction Relapse"? The Fallout of Relapse— For the Porn Addict: Hopelessness, shame,...
    Stop Being a "Victim"—"Let Go" and Let Her Focus on Healing from Betrayal Trauma!
    mbkastleman
    • Aug 11, 2020

    Stop Being a "Victim"—"Let Go" and Let Her Focus on Healing from Betrayal Trauma!

    It's very easy to lose track of your own recovery from porn addiction and try to CONTROL your spouse's healing. To be successful in your...
    Break Out of Being a "Victim" to His Porn Addiction!
    mbkastleman
    • Aug 10, 2020

    Break Out of Being a "Victim" to His Porn Addiction!

    Your husband's porn addiction can easily plunge you into the "Victim Trap"! In this confusing and hopeless place, it's virtually...
    Porn Addiction and the "Funnel"—Why Do Good LDS Men Get Pulled into Porn?
    mbkastleman
    • Feb 19, 2020

    Porn Addiction and the "Funnel"—Why Do Good LDS Men Get Pulled into Porn?

    LDS men trapped in porn suffer immense SHAME! Why is this true and HOW can they break free from porn addiction?
    Is Your Porn Addicted Husband "Gaslighting" You?
    mbkastleman
    • Feb 16, 2020

    Is Your Porn Addicted Husband "Gaslighting" You?

    A husband addicted to porn will often go to great lengths to keep his use hidden from his wife, including using "gaslighting."
    Porn Use Can "Cripple" Your Willpower!
    mbkastleman
    • Feb 13, 2020

    Porn Use Can "Cripple" Your Willpower!

    Willpower alone does NOT overcome porn addiction! This is true because porn use "rewires" the brain. It's not about "will"—it's "SKILL."
    Pornography Viewing is NOT as Private as You May Think!
    mbkastleman
    • Feb 12, 2020

    Pornography Viewing is NOT as Private as You May Think!

    Porn addiction rewires the brain and a brain on porn doesn't want to be confused by the "facts." The facts are, is is NOT private!
    His Porn Addiction and Her Betrayal Trauma—Part Three
    mbkastleman
    • Feb 5, 2020

    His Porn Addiction and Her Betrayal Trauma—Part Three

    When there's betrayal trauma in marriage due to one spouse's porn addiction, setting "sexual boundaries" is critical to the healing process.
    Porn Addiction Recovery is a Journey—Not an Event!
    mbkastleman
    • Feb 1, 2020

    Porn Addiction Recovery is a Journey—Not an Event!

    Porn addiction recovery is not a single event, but a series of successes—one amazing learning experience at-a-time! You can succeed!
    Does Great Sex with a Partner Cure Porn Addiction?
    mbkastleman
    • Jan 23, 2020

    Does Great Sex with a Partner Cure Porn Addiction?

    Many who struggle with porn use believe that once they're married the problem will naturally go away. This is nearly never the case! Why?
    The Steps to Overcome Pornography Addiction
    mbkastleman
    • Dec 10, 2019

    The Steps to Overcome Pornography Addiction

    There are specific steps that lead to porn addiction and specific steps to break free . . .
    How can I STOP watching porn?!
    mbkastleman
    • Nov 3, 2019

    How can I STOP watching porn?!

    There are 5 basic Essential Principles to help you STOP watching porn. They've been tested and proven by guys struggling all over the world.
    Is Porn Tearing Your Marriage Apart?
    mbkastleman
    • Oct 1, 2019

    Is Porn Tearing Your Marriage Apart?

    This is NOT a trial you asked for! No woman says "I do" expecting to deal with a situation of this magnitude. And it's NOT your fault!
    Your Husband Is a Good Man...
So Why is He Trapped in Porn?
    mbkastleman
    • Sep 2, 2019

    Your Husband Is a Good Man... So Why is He Trapped in Porn?

    There Are Three Primary Reasons... And They May Not Be What You Think . . .

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