We Can Get "Stuck" in Betrayal Trauma Pain! How Can we Heal and Move Forward?

Because of my own decades of addiction, my wife suffered a great deal of Betrayal Trauma. There's a very special place in my heart for...

In Porn Addiction or Betrayal Trauma—Is God Your Problem or Your Solution?

There can be a BIG difference between "religiosity" and "spirituality." When it's unhealthy, religiosity can create a significant WALL...

Stop Being a "Victim"—"Let Go" and Let Her Focus on Healing from Betrayal Trauma!

It's very easy to lose track of your own recovery from porn addiction and try to CONTROL your spouse's healing. To be successful in your...

Break Out of Being a "Victim" to His Porn Addiction!

Your husband's porn addiction can easily plunge you into the "Victim Trap"! In this confusing and hopeless place, it's virtually...

His Porn Addiction and her Betrayal Trauma—Part Two

Betrayal Trauma has a massive impact on a woman’s sense of self-esteem and worth: Personal inadequacy (physical, emotional and sexual)—“I’ll

His Porn Addiction and Her Betrayal Trauma—Part One

You are NOT going crazy! The roller coaster ride of emotions you're feeling is normal.

Is Porn Tearing Your Marriage Apart?

This is NOT a trial you asked for! No woman says "I do" expecting to deal with a situation of this magnitude. And it's NOT your fault!